Un-Understandable Things Mostly Love.
First of all. Before I begin this post. Sorry for the delay in posting. Having my CA exams in 1 month is a huge pain in the ass especially when the syllabus isn’t complete. And trust me the syllabus is HUGE! And add to that the frequency with which I am falling sick this month I am skeptical if I’ll even be able to retain a portion of what I DO study. But ignoring my sickness or lack of perfect health. I am here to give you your next dose of ME!
Now this isn’t probably the first post you are reading on love. And probably every angsty, teenaged, or simply nerdy guy has at least once made a post on Love or the lack of it in their lives.
Mine is not one of them!
That’s not to say I do not lack a romantic interest. But I am not here to rant about it. (P.S. Ladies feel free to message me. This blabbermouth flirt extraordinaire can make you laugh and at worst you’ll just add another point to my Friend-zoned counter!).
SO ANYWAY! BACK TO TOPIC!
I have a serious question for all you love birds. Over the course of my life. I have heard various phrases like Sometimes you just know, or Sometimes you just click, or you see her and there’s music in the air.
Now I’ve had a few of those. But most of it simply involved how lustful I was feeling and how gorgeous the girl simply was. But this (putting aside my horny male self) made me ask myself a very important question!
HOW DO I KNOW IF SHE’S THE ONE?
For a couple of years now I have been “in love” with one of my best friends (Yeah I have more than one. Sue me!). And while trying to move on from this unrequited love I realized I didn’t actually know what Love truly meant. Was thinking about her before yourself? Praying for her well-being even when you are an atheist and her being the only one you wanted to spend your life with enough?
Sufficient to say. My Brain gave a blunt answer of No.
Now matter how much humanity may have evolved in the past decades. The emotion of Love has remained un-describe-able. Beyond the warm feeling in your heart towards your child or your parent or the protective feeling towards your siblings and close ones. Love is the one emotion no one has successfully been able to put into words.
As a Poet I have tried. But this makes me even more intimately familiar with how difficult that task truly is. And having said all that. I can safely say I don’t know if I love someone or not.
Having been a friend in need, I have been always been able to carry conversations provided the person on the other side isn’t averse to it. And while I have successfully found girls who meet the criteria for what I want in my Girlfriend. Their has been little progress beyond friendship. Sometimes because my own incompetency (not sure if that’s the appropriate word but fuck it…) and sometimes because of my own lack of feeling of that spark. The one that you are SUPPOSED to feel when you’re in love.
So this is a question to all you readers who have felt, are in or have been in love. (And I dont mean paternal, fraternal, maternal, sibling, bro-love, sisterly love, sibling love, pet love.. etc etc. I mean the love which involves spending your life with your better half!) How do I know I have found the one? And How do I know I am in love?
Or! Steps to do to figure out if and who you are in love with.
Hope to see at least some comments! (Unless I have made some mistake with my customization and none of you can actually comment in which case I am gonna need a lot more help than just the above!)
CHEERS!
(P.S. Yes I know the Image is a bit cheesy. But I couldn’t think of a better one for this post. Mostly because I was half asleep while writing it.)
Piece From Chaos 